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Creative Solution for Homeschool High School When Life Happens

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I’m sharing a creative solution for homeschool high school when life happens. Also, look at my page How to Homeschool High School.

This made homeschooling my second high school son, Mr. Awesome, not only meaningful but one that I am really treasuring.

Although I had my reservations at first.

Let me back up first because you have to understand what happened when homeschooling high school with Mr. Senior 2013 to understand how I came up with the solution, which I am going to share in just a minute.

Creative Solution for Homeschool High School When Life Happens

When homeschooling Mr. Senior 2013, I had planned all four years.

And probably like most new homeschooling high school parents, I had a bit of over planning involved too.

Next, look at some of these resources to help you homeschool high school.

How to Homeschool High School Books & Resources

How to homeschool high school can be daunting at first. With a little help and these great resources, you’ll be a homeschool pro in no time.

Homeschooling 31 Day Boot Camp for New Homeschoolers: When You Don't Know Where to Begin

Homeschooling 31 Day Boot Camp for New Homeschoolers is a real eye-opener on homeschooling. It will alleviate a lot of the anxieties about getting started homeschooling. Reading each chapter’s highlights will give you encouragement, knowledge, guidance, and peace of mind to homeschool with confidence. The best part is that you’ll be educating the person who loves your kids the most in this world--YOU! Armed with the knowledge to make better choices in curriculum will empower you to continue the path of home education. Unlike many books based on one family’s experience, Homeschooling 31 Day Boot Camp for New Homeschoolers is also based on Tina’s many years of mentoring hundreds and hundreds of new homeschoolers at live workshops. When you don’t know where to begin Homeschooling 31 Day Boot Camp for New Homeschoolers equips you to successfully homeschool your children.

Cure the Fear of Homeschooling High School: A Step-by-Step Handbook for Research & Planning

Are you afraid of homeschooling high school? Do you think you’ll ruin your teen’s life? Are you afraid you’ll miss an important requirement for getting into college? Are you confused about credits and coursework? Or are you just downright overwhelmed and don’t even know where to start?

This book will take you step-by-step through the process of planning your child’s high school coursework all the way through to graduation, in such a way that you will KNOW that you are not missing anything! You truly can feel absolutely confident that you are doing the best thing for your child and your family. You can make informed decisions knowing you have done the correct research to do so. You can be FEARLESS!

Planning High School Courses: Charting the Course Toward Homeschool Graduation

Experienced hikers know to never begin a demanding journey without a good map and a strong plan. For homeschooling parents, it’s even more important to establish a solid homeschool plans toward high school graduation.

So, What Are Your Homeschool Plans?

  • Do you know how to homeschool high school?
  • Do you know how to prepare for college?
  • Do you know the high school courses essential to preparing for graduation, college and career?

Essential Electives for Homeschooling High School: How to Craft Courses That Exceed College Expectations

Homeschool Electives are the Secret Sauce for College Admission and Scholarships!

Learn How Homeschool Electives Can Make Teens, Parents, and Colleges Happy!

Homeschool electives are fun! Teens love them because electives involve a lot of what they want to do anyway. Parents love them because a happy teen makes for a happy family! Colleges love them because it helps them understand your teen so they can make good admission and scholarship decisions.

Lee Binz, The HomeScholar, shares the joy of homeschool electives. You will learn strategies to help you choose elective homeschool high school curriculum and document electives colleges will value. Don't put your homeschool in a box. Use electives and let your homeschool soar!

Graduate Your Homeschooler in Style: Make Your Homeschool Graduation Memorable

You’ve worked hard homeschooling your child, and now you’re near the goal line... homeschool graduation. Your plan your graduation takes forethought, not just for the culminating graduation ceremony, but also to ensure your child has accomplished everything you want them to before
leaving the nest.

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However, though I didn’t feel like this in the beginning of my homeschool journey (that is another topic), I also didn’t want to turn the teaching reins over to somebody else.

I had not schooled this long to come to the point in my teen’s life to let somebody else make significant decisions.

Some of the best times I have had are homeschooling high school though I was terrified when we started.

I won’t be victim to the idea that somebody else can give my kids better. 

In other words, I won’t make any decision based on fear though many times I didn’t feel so brave.

Then right in the middle of high school with Mr. Senior 2013 as I mentioned in my post Should I Let My Homeschooled Teen Graduate Early, my hubby had a significant heart attack.

It was a set back for us in high school.

After we recuperated from that as a family, I realized that I had gotten behind on supervising some of the courses for Mr. Senior 2013.

However, we buried our noses in the books and he graduated on time and of course we had a huge celebration, Texas style.

The point I learned from what happened to my family was that I never wanted to be in that position again with Mr. Awesome of feeling helpless.

I also learned that instead of planning week by week with Mr. Senior 2013 (he preferred that over my 3 month suggestion of planning and I let him do it because I am teaching him to be responsible for his own methods of learning), that I could have planned out 3 months and still let Mr. Senior 2013 plan weekly.

High School Options for Teens

This would have alleviated the stress and helplessness I felt then.

However, that is water under the bridge and there is no way either my oldest son or I had any control over what happened in our lives.

Are you still with me?

I had to share all of that because it always helps me to make better decisions in our homeschool when reading advice if I understand why the choices were made.

So without giving up my control as the homeschooling high school teacher, I came up with a creative solution to high school.

I have taken at least two years homeschooling Mr. Awesome with subjects we chose together AND he is also completing an online accredited high school program with Penn Foster.

I rejected the popular notion that I had to either do it ALL myself OR give it ALL to somebody else.

The criteria for me choosing an online high school program was that it had to be basic, easy and able to be completed within about a year and half or so.

Creative Solution for Homeschool High School When Life Happens @ Tina's Dynamic Homeschool Plus

Penn Foster, unlike for example, Keystone High School program I knew was a much lighter high school program.

With all the upcoming doctor’s visit, recovering time and upcoming care my husband needed, I wanted to have a back up to my courses.

Too, I wanted Mr. Awesome to focus on the courses I had selected, just like I had with Mr. Senior 2013 and to be able to customize high school for him and spend that one-to-one time I had given Mr. Senior 2013.

Of course, Mr. Awesome had to be on board with this because I didn’t want him to think that I was making him repeat courses either.

Abiding Homeschool High School

In helping many homeschoolers, I was familiar with a wide variety of high school programs and knew that Penn Foster has been around for a while and prided itself on covering basics, which obviously would be a good choice if our life took another unexpected turn during Mr. Awesome’s high school years.

It has given Mr. Awesome a framework and still has allowed me to flesh in with programs like North Star Geography, some of my Bible lessons I want him to have and do our unit studies.

Thankfully, the Mr. has had as good as health as he will have living with the effects of the heart attack and Mr. Awesome has hammered through both the subjects we chose and those of Penn Foster.

It will have taken him about a year and half to finish Penn Foster but it also had some unexpected benefits of using Penn Foster that I will explain in an upcoming post.

Out of struggling, though it may be stressful to go through, I feel, always comes empowerment.

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I want each of my son’s homeschool high school experience to be unique and Mr. Awesome has certainly flourished with doing a combination of my subjects and ones we chose through Penn Foster.

Without giving up my goals of being able to give my second son a personal and unique high school experience, it called for creativity not compromise.

Homeschool High School

I am hoping by sharing this today, that if life throws you an unexpected curve, you will not give up but find a creative solution.

The end doesn’t always turn out as planned, sometimes it is better.

Also check out these other articles:

How Do Homeschooled Students Get a Diploma If I Do This Myself

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I love your questions and just had to share this one with you. The question is how do homeschooled students get a diploma if I do this myself? Also, I have more tips on my page How to Homeschool High School.

Hi my name is Kimberly I have 4 kids ..I started homeschooling my oldest son about 4yrs ago but with a school online then my other two oldest wanted me to home school well its very expensive going through a school on the internet .. I have been reading your blog and talking to my husband about just doing it on my own cause we have one more child who will be starting kindergarten next year it will be way to much to stay in this online schooling, but anyways my question to you is if I do the whole homeschooling myself how would they get a high diploma ??? I live in Indiana thanks for your time

How Do Homeschooled Students Get a Diploma If I Do This Myself

It’s true.

Online public school is very expensive because not only are you paying for curriculum, but you are also paying for teacher advice and depending on the school you could pay for record keeping.

Time-Saving Tricks

Doing this by yourself is not as hard or as terrifying as many homeschoolers may think. It takes knowing a few time-saving tricks and I want to share them with you.

Look at these things that you want to resolve and plan for now that will save you tons of time and stress later.

How Do Homeschooled Students Get a Diploma

■Plan with the end in mind.

It sounds crazy, but what it means is to start your forward planning by deciding the end goals now and working toward meeting them.

You don’t want any surprises at the end of your son’s high school journey when it comes time for college or career.

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Homeschool Diploma

Start planning by finding out first what the requirements are for either a college or career.

When you find out the requirements, then you are sure to include those subjects or skills in his high school course.

It will form the skeleton of his high school courses. By being sure you cover everything you are suppose to do to prepare him for the course he will take, you will not have any surprises.

■Consider your state laws, if any.

The next thing is to determine what your area requires, if anything when it comes to high school graduation. A lot of states, the parents determine what course and credits to do for high school.

Just be sure you are complying with the law. If there are no requirements, then move on to the next point. If there are requirements, include them in your skeleton courses.

■If you have a choice of courses, then you want to be familiar with what is the total number of credits most high schools require for graduation and then adjust your expectations accordingly.

To give you a rule of thumb, 19 credits is about minimum and up to about 24 credits earned through the four years is college bound.

Again, if your child is attending a college, you will have started with them first to find out which courses will help him get accepted into college and you will want to decide the number of credits.

Too, a simple google search of things like *high school courses and transcripts* will give you ample examples of how a balanced high school program may look.

From that, you can add and tweak credits and courses you want for your son.

Establish the total number of credits and make it clear to him and you so you both know what it takes to graduate.

Next, look at some of these books for homeschooling high school.

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How to Homeschool High School Books & Resources

How to homeschool high school can be daunting at first. With a little help and these great resources, you’ll be a homeschool pro in no time.

Homeschooling 31 Day Boot Camp for New Homeschoolers: When You Don't Know Where to Begin

Homeschooling 31 Day Boot Camp for New Homeschoolers is a real eye-opener on homeschooling. It will alleviate a lot of the anxieties about getting started homeschooling. Reading each chapter’s highlights will give you encouragement, knowledge, guidance, and peace of mind to homeschool with confidence. The best part is that you’ll be educating the person who loves your kids the most in this world--YOU! Armed with the knowledge to make better choices in curriculum will empower you to continue the path of home education. Unlike many books based on one family’s experience, Homeschooling 31 Day Boot Camp for New Homeschoolers is also based on Tina’s many years of mentoring hundreds and hundreds of new homeschoolers at live workshops. When you don’t know where to begin Homeschooling 31 Day Boot Camp for New Homeschoolers equips you to successfully homeschool your children.

Cure the Fear of Homeschooling High School: A Step-by-Step Handbook for Research & Planning

Are you afraid of homeschooling high school? Do you think you’ll ruin your teen’s life? Are you afraid you’ll miss an important requirement for getting into college? Are you confused about credits and coursework? Or are you just downright overwhelmed and don’t even know where to start?

This book will take you step-by-step through the process of planning your child’s high school coursework all the way through to graduation, in such a way that you will KNOW that you are not missing anything! You truly can feel absolutely confident that you are doing the best thing for your child and your family. You can make informed decisions knowing you have done the correct research to do so. You can be FEARLESS!

Planning High School Courses: Charting the Course Toward Homeschool Graduation

Experienced hikers know to never begin a demanding journey without a good map and a strong plan. For homeschooling parents, it’s even more important to establish a solid homeschool plans toward high school graduation.

So, What Are Your Homeschool Plans?

  • Do you know how to homeschool high school?
  • Do you know how to prepare for college?
  • Do you know the high school courses essential to preparing for graduation, college and career?

Essential Electives for Homeschooling High School: How to Craft Courses That Exceed College Expectations

Homeschool Electives are the Secret Sauce for College Admission and Scholarships!

Learn How Homeschool Electives Can Make Teens, Parents, and Colleges Happy!

Homeschool electives are fun! Teens love them because electives involve a lot of what they want to do anyway. Parents love them because a happy teen makes for a happy family! Colleges love them because it helps them understand your teen so they can make good admission and scholarship decisions.

Lee Binz, The HomeScholar, shares the joy of homeschool electives. You will learn strategies to help you choose elective homeschool high school curriculum and document electives colleges will value. Don't put your homeschool in a box. Use electives and let your homeschool soar!

Graduate Your Homeschooler in Style: Make Your Homeschool Graduation Memorable

You’ve worked hard homeschooling your child, and now you’re near the goal line... homeschool graduation. Your plan your graduation takes forethought, not just for the culminating graduation ceremony, but also to ensure your child has accomplished everything you want them to before
leaving the nest.

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Also, to further educate you, one (1) credit is usually earned for one course (normally). It can be a bit complicated, but not too bad.

For example, with art and p.e. you will probably want to assign them each 1/2 credit because they don’t have the same weight as say a rigorous math or language arts program.

So, some credits are weighted.

Don’t worry too much about that now.

Just try to understand the fact that 1 credit normally equals finishing one course or book.

Check out my useful tips on my article, Homeschool High School – How to Log Hours for High School?

Lastly, divide the number of credits by the years of homeschool.

For example, if you want high school for 4 years and want about 22 credits, then you see your child needs about 5 credits or so each year (equally to 20 credits), with one year having a heavier workload to add two more credits.

It is simple math after you determine what your son needs to graduate.

If your son wants to move through high school quicker, like three years, then divide the number of credits you determined he needs to get by the years.

That’s it. Eazy peazy.

When I started with my oldest son, I just typed in a Word document what our four year plan was and what subjects he would take each year.

As he completed them and graded them, I just added the grade to my Word and kept going.

What you don’t have to decide for ALL four years are the courses. Subjects yes, but courses no.

State Laws Dictate Preparation of Diploma

What I mean by this is say for example, you have down world studies as a credit one year.

Let your teen decide if he wants to cover them generally or if he wants to zero in on a particular civilization or culture.

This makes for a very unique high school diploma, because it reflects his personality and interests.

Some subjects may be must haves like four years of math, especially if he going to college. But, if he has covered some basic algebra in the junior high years, he can focus on more advanced courses.

Too, he may focus on book keeping or some other practical life skill during his high school years.

There is so much variety in courses, that you want to decide that each year because as you teen matures, he may change his likes, dislikes and even direction.

The best thing to do is plot your course loosely, but that allows breathing room for your son if he changes his mind.

Be sure also to read my articles for high school and schooling a teen for more useful insider’s secrets.

■ Simple record keeping. The next insider tip is that you want some way to track all of what he is doing each year.

Also, grab my homeschool high school planning forms at the bottom of Step 5a Choose Unique Forms for the 7 Step Homeschool Planner.

And just remember, thousands and thousands of homeschool moms like yourself have gone ahead and crossed this bridge successfully.

With a bit of research and reading, you too can do this!

And don’t forget more how do homeschooled students get a diploma tips:

The Day is About Your Graduate Home Graduation Ideas Day 5 of 10 Days

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Today is Day 5 home graduation ideas remember the day for the updated 10 days series for planning a homeschool graduation. Also, look at more ideas on my how to homeschool high school page.

By this time in the stage of planning, I am feeling better because we have hired a baker for the cake, a caterer for our chicken and prime rib dinner, had invitations ordered and a place to hold our graduation.

Now came the nitty-gritty details of planning for the big day and for the fun part – decorations.

The Day is About Your Graduate Home Graduation Ideas Day 5 of 10 Days

Here were some of the ideas going through my mind for the events of the big day.

  • How would my son want his diploma given to him?
  • Did we want a table showcased with his achievements, hobbies and interests?
  • How comfortable was my son with a slide show presentation of our journey?
  • Did he want to give a graduation speech?
  • Did he want to play the piano?

Surprisingly, my son wanted it pretty simple for the day.

He wanted a dinner, give a short but gracious speech, have lots of pictures taken and reflect back by looking at pictures from previous field trips and events.

Home School Graduation Ideas

The Mr. gets emotional only on a few occasions, but wanted to give my son his diploma in private so the could tell him how he felt. I couldn’t have asked for anything more.

A lot of our friends are homeschooled too and have been with us from the beginning, so they know his achievements.

The Day is About Your Graduate Home Graduation Ideas Day 5 of 10 Days. Today is Day 5 home graduation ideas remember the day for the updated 10 days series for planning a homeschool graduation. Also, look at more ideas on my how to homeschool high school page. By this time in the stage of planning, I am feeling better because we have hired a baker for the cake, a caterer for our chicken and prime rib dinner, had invitations ordered and a place to hold our graduation.

Would my son feel differently or want something more elaborate if we had started homeschooling in high school?  I don’t know.

I do know that I learned that my son was not affected by the things of this world like I am because I went to public school. He didn’t have any preconceived ideas of what a graduation was suppose to look like.

Was I still trying to do things the public school way, even on his graduation?

Remembering that the day is more about what our family wanted, I started planning to keep it simple, but fun for the night.

Understanding that my son wanted pictures at the party more than a slideshow focused on him, I started preparing a photo collage.

The Day is About Your Graduate Home Graduation Ideas Day 5 of 10 Days. Today is Day 5 home graduation ideas remember the day for the updated 10 days series for planning a homeschool graduation. Also, look at more ideas on my how to homeschool high school page. By this time in the stage of planning, I am feeling better because we have hired a baker for the cake, a caterer for our chicken and prime rib dinner, had invitations ordered and a place to hold our graduation.

I started at one small corner by making letters of his name. Of course, you know my love affair with washi tape, so it has to go on anything I make. It can’t hurt.

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After slowly adding more pictures I think I had something that Mr. Senior 2013 would allow at the party. Boys! They have to be sure everything is not too girly looking or too big.

ME? I wanted a whole wall of pictures, but restrained myself to a smaller display.

Homeschool High School Photo Collage

Fast forwarding you to the day of the party. What do you think?

The photo collage turned out to be just enough of his accomplishments, but focused on friendships we built through the years.

But oh no, I couldn’t stop there with decorations.

I had way more ideas. I will show you another project or two we did with the help of hubby and some more ideas for THE day.

More Homeschool High School Graduation Planning Resources

Every family and teen is different too.

It’s not like I didn’t already know that, it just became more of a reality check when planning the graduation.

The Day is About Your Graduate Home Graduation Ideas Day 5 of 10 Days

As I stopped trying to follow what I think our special day should look like or be according to everyone else and started planning for an occasion unique to my family, things started to fall in place.

If you missed the other posts in this series, you can catch up below:

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Day 2 Senior Portraits and Senior Cap and Gowns Tinas Dynamic Homeschool Plus thumb Day 4. Menu & Venue. 10 days of Planning A Homeschool High School Graduation
Day 3 Homeschool Graduation Invitations Which Words Matter Tinas Dynamic Homeschool Plus thum Day 4. Menu & Venue. 10 days of Planning A Homeschool High School Graduation
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Homeschool High School Graduation Menu and Party Venue Day 4 of 10 Days

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Today is Day 4 homeschool high school graduation menu and party venue ideas for the updated 10 days series for planning a homeschool graduation. Also, look at more ideas on my how to homeschool high school page.

As I learned, choosing a menu goes hand in hand with choosing a venue.

We knew we were wanting to host a graduation with a sit down dinner and not just serve light refreshments.

Homeschool High School Graduation Menu and Party Venue Day 4 of 10 Days

I feel there are a handful of occasions that come around in life that deserve more attention than normal; graduating high school is one of them.

We chose to serve a dinner for our guests. Keeping it small keeps it affordable too.

At first, Mr. Senior 2013 decided he wanted Italian food. We love Italian food.

However, I feel when serving to a larger crowd and because not everybody has the same taste palate, a more diverse menu was in order.

10 Days of Planning a Homeschool High School Graduation: Menu and Venue (Day 4). As I learned, choosing a menu goes hand in hand with choosing a venue. We knew we were wanting to host a graduation with a sit down dinner and not just serve light refreshments. I feel there are a handful of occasions that come around in life that deserve more attention than normal; graduating high school is one of them. We chose to serve a dinner for our guests. CLICK here to learn how we celebrated!

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He agreed and in the end we kept to our southern roots and added in something special, like the prime rib.

Here is our menu for the night

  • chicken friend chicken with smothered cream gravy
  • prime rib
  • garlic mashed potatoes
  • southern style green beans (no half cooked crispy green beans)
  • salad/trimmings
  • homemade bread sticks

Having hosted many parties where I both prepared the food and brought it, I didn’t want to do that this time.

I wanted to enjoy the out of town guests and family instead of running around serving/preparing food.

Look at these tips I learned when ordering the food through a catering service that saved us some money.

  • Choose a time of the week when it’s not as busy. Saturday is more like a peak time, so having our party on Friday, it was a better price break.
  • I chose entrees and sides separately instead of paying by the plate. In other words think like you are picking up the food with 40 servings instead of telling them they are catering.
  • By serving the food ourselves, we didn’t have the extra charge for set up, serving and tips for servers.
  • For us, the venue was right down the road, so the caterer only charged an extra $25.00 for delivery. If the place is further away, having somebody responsible with a huge van works too. For me, having the chef deliver the food worked out better since he had rolling carts and brought his hired help.
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At this time, I ordered the cake too. Being the guy that he is, Mr. Senior 2013 only had a few things he wanted.

One thing was he didn’t want it to look like a wedding cake or “too girly”.

I think if you have a daughter, she will probably have a lot to say on this.

Homeschool High School Graduation – Party Time!

I think it’s hard for cakes to look anything other than plain pretty.

I ended up having it made and chose an ombre (graduated color) blue design.

Keeping the table simple with candles, flowers and a white cake stand, kept it pretty, simple, and elegant.

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As far as the venue, we have a lot of places around us to choose from.

I have lived in places where you only have a handful of places that are nice. But, if you have a choice, look for these things.

  • Is there a fee for set up or cleaning?
  • Do you have to clean? Can you pay for somebody to clean it afterwards? We got the place clean and so all we had to do was pitch in at the end and clean up. Our homeschool kids are use to doing this because of how many field trips we have had hosted.
  • We ended up going with a community center that has a nice kitchen so I could keep the food warm when it was delivered. There was plenty of parking and it was easy to find so I didn’t have to send out instructions with the invitations. The lobby was warm and inviting.

But, I think the best tips of all are the money savings tips because why not take advantage of them. Who wants to pay full price when we can get a deal?

Remembering that some managers gave me a discount for places we have rented for our homeschool co-ops during the week, my hubby asked them for renting the place on FRIDAY and not a peak time like Saturday night.

They were delighted because hardly anybody rents a room or building on a Friday.

We cut our cost significantly, about 40% by renting it on Friday.

Our homeschool friends are pretty flexible and as long as they knew ahead of time, they can arrange their schedules.

Choosing to do some of the serving and cleaning ourselves, the party was fast becoming a part diy party.

But that is not the only diy thing we did. You know homeschoolers become true do it yourself people the longer we homeschool. It’s true.

Next post, I will share some more things we did to prepare for the decorations and yep, it included getting the Mr. to help us out too.

If you missed the other posts in this series, you can catch up below:

Homeschool High School Graduation Menu and Party Venue Day 4 of 10 Days

    More Homeschool High School Graduation Planning Resources

    10 days of Planning A Homeschool High School Graduation: Day 1 Start the Planning

    Day 2 Senior Portraits/Cap & Gown. 10 days of Planning A Homeschool High School Graduation

    Day 3 Homeschool Graduation Invitations Which Words Matter Tinas Dynamic Homeschool Plus thum Day 3 Homeschool Graduation Invitations–Which Words Matter. 10 days of Planning A Homeschool High School Graduation

    High School Homeschool Graduation Invitations Day 3 of 10 Days Planning a Graduation

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    Today is Day 3 high school homeschool graduation invitations for the updated 10 days series for planning a homeschool graduation. Also, look at more ideas on my how to homeschool high school page.

    You would think it would be easy.

    Pick out some homeschool graduation invitations and have them printed or ordered online. What could possibly be hard about that?

    High School Homeschool Graduation Invitations Day 3 of 10 Days Planning a Graduation

    When it got close to the time of having to pick them out, the do-it-yourself homeschooler in me kicked in. 

    The words mattered to me because we have traveled a different road for almost our whole journey.  

    Why should I end up with something normal when it matters the most now?

    I admit it, tears came with mulling over and searching to find the right words of how I felt deep down. You know not the surface wording we are suppose to say on an invitation.

    But words you keep tucked away low down, because if they surface people may think you have lost it.

    Planning Homeschool High School Graduation: Invitations – Which Words Matter (Day 3). You would think it would be easy. Pick out some graduation invitations and have them printed or ordered online. What could possibly be hard about that? When it got close to the time of having to pick them out, the do it yourself homeschooler in me kicked in. Why should I end up with something normal when it matters the most now? Click here to get ideas for wording for your homeschool graduate's invitation!

    I wanted to express how grateful his father and I were that we had the privilege to homeschool Mr. Senior 2013. I wanted to thank the Creator for the blessing of having him in our life.

    Heart Felt Words Meaningful to Your Family

    Tears streamed as my hands typed.

    Knowing the quiet, dignified demeanor of my son (he doesn’t take after me, must be his father) I knew right away he would be, to say the least uncomfortable by what I had already drafted.

    Remember, what I said earlier about this not being just your party? It’s true. Mr. Senior 2013 cared about the details of the party including the invitation wording.

    I had always thought because he was a boy, he might leave some of that up to me, but he didn’t.

    I think that it is one of the privileges of homeschooling – teaching kids to care and being responsible even about little things.

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    So after realizing that much of my wording was way too sentimental for an invitation and that it wasn’t a Thank the Lord invitation for his life, I was able to pick out words that expressed how we felt without scaring away my guests.

    Too, by this point you will have decided if you will do a group graduation, which we decided not to. 

    We really wanted something private where we dictated the events for the evening.

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    Look at some of these ideas for wording for both individual and group graduations.

    Homeschool Graduation Invitations

    • “Join us as we celebrate the homeschool graduation…..”
    • “The Class of 20__ proudly announces the homeschool graduation from (use the name of your school).”
    • “We have accomplished our God-given assignment and proudly announce the homeschool graduation of…”
    • “Mr. & Mrs. You are proud to announce the graduation of …….from their homeschool education.”
    • “With thanks to God for his guidance, the parents of ….. announce the homeschool high school graduation of……”
    • “…….will be receiving his high school diploma from (name your school) Homeschool Program.”
    • “As our final years come to an end, we pause to reflect on the joy and memories. Please join us as _____ celebrates his homeschool high school graduation.”
    • ‘We celebrate the blessing of our homeschool journey by announcing the high school graduation of……”
    • “Please join us in honor of ____’s graduation from (your school name)”
    • “It is with great pride that we announce the graduation of our son………..from ………”
    homeschool graduation invitation back side @ Tinas Dynamic Homeschool Plus

    Do Save the Date Text or Email

    Deciding to do a double-sided card also allowed room for more wording on the back which was important to us.

    We were able to express our thankfulness for Mr. Senior 2013 and keep his dignity. Looking above I was able to get in all the details on the card.

    Just as a side point to remember, I did send out a save the date email/text way early to my guests.

    Especially if you plan a graduation in the summer, you will want to do this way ahead of time even if you don’t have all the details worked out.

    I know our friends appreciated the save the date email/text so they could make vacation plans.

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    Though saving money was not the main driving point for me preparing his invitation, it was a nice side advantage.

    Two ways I have saved money so far, but felt like we were still having a unique experience are:

    • I had 2 photographers. One was not quite so professional where I had more time to devote to the photo shoot. The second one I knew exactly how long I would have him and had a list of photos for him too which I will tell you about in an upcoming post.
    • I designed my own invitations and only paid for printing/envelopes. Even if you don’t have the skill set for creating graphics, a lot of homeschoolers do. It is possible among your local group that you may find a homeschool teen or parent that can do this.

    In the end, choosing invitations mattered more than I realized, and I didn’t want to leave the words that mattered most up to a stranger.

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    Whether you homeschool the whole time or a few short years, it is is a treasured time and there is no substitute for expressing your heart.

    The other words that I have for my son as his mom stayed where they should be and that is with him.

    But those are not the only ways I unexpectedly saved money.

    The venue or location to have our graduation was equally important and by accident I stumbled across another way to save money on this part of the planning too.

    In my next post on this series, I will give you some tips on how we chose a venue.

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