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Go Ahead and Make a Mistake: Homeschool Without Fear

January 3, 2016 | 17 Comments
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Go Ahead and Make a Mistake: Homeschool Without Fear

Perfectionism somehow has been linked to excellence altthough they are completely different concepts.

Unintentionally, some homeschoolers feel that homeschooling is about making all the right decisions.

Messing our kids up for life can be a paralyzing and harder to shake for some homeschoolers than others.

Well, guess what? It’s okay. Go ahead and make a mistake. It’s the expectation of perfectionism that is the burden, not making a mistake.

The first of my many big homeschool mistakes was choosing the wrong reading program for Mr. Senior 2013.

Tears and the ugly cry followed. You know the kind of cry that is uncontrollable where you don’t want anybody to know that you can still cry like a baby.

However, after the ugly cry stopped, I could face constructive self-criticism that I wasn’t the excellent teacher I thought I was. It was a huge eye opener.

As I sat down wondering if I had messed my first homeschooled kid up for life, I realized then that my first mistake was like a huge exhale and really a relief. Wait, this wasn’t about me, my ego or my intelligence. It is about finding what is the best for my children.

The buildup to my homeschool mistake was far worse than actually the great big blunder.

How To Go from Stuck to Unstoppable

Instead of making me want to quit though, what I learned was that I knew deep down that mistakes were going to happen.

Who was I kidding? I am not into homeschooling by perfect parents. I am far from that.

To take that mindset one step further, as I examined my homeschool fears, I knew that to survive homeschooling I had to let go of my perfectionist tendencies.

Facing the fact that perfectionism is an ugly tendency is a giant first step in letting go of homeschool fear.

Perfectionist homeschoolers can be so busy or so they tell themselves that when in fact it’s procrastination because they want to find the perfect (?????) insert here: math, reading, history or whatever curriculum.

It didn’t mean that I had to let go of my standard of excellence in teaching reading, but I had to learn something from it.

Releasing the fear and facing a mistake dead on didn’t make my knees crumble, but it did make me stronger.

Mistakes are stepping stones to progress.

Must read book for new homeschoolers. 31 Day Boot Camp for New Homeschoolers!

Not wanting to homeschool with constant stress because a perfectionist attitude makes me constantly wanting something better and bigger, I know accepting best, even mistakes meant that I was on the road to homeschool progress.

Learning from the mistake and now knowing what to choose or not choose whether it was a reading program or activity outside the house enriched my homeschool journey.

My mistakes moved me from novice to empowered educator. Look at my tips in my article, From Struggling Homeschooler to Empowered Educator.

Too, I have never wanted to be the kind of person who is wounded by criticism, let alone be that type of homeschool teacher.

Constructive criticism is part of making a mistake and being a novice. It is part of growing as a seasoned homeschooler.

When Teaching is Infectious and Contagious

Not only does making a homeschool mistake make you stronger, but it gives you empathy for other homeschoolers who are struggling.

It’s true that I can’t even start to be an awesome teacher unless I learn first from my mistakes and then help others.

Homeschooling is not for cowards or the faint-hearted because it takes courage to learn from the mistake and not make the same mistake again.

Removing the fear of a mistake or perfectionism allows room for excellence to grow in our homeschool journey.

Don’t let fear breed, cripple, poison, and paralyze your homeschool day.

Make a mistake and feel the freedom of guilt and fear unburdened. Progress is just a few tiny steps away.

What homeschool mistakes have you made that set you on the road to an empowered educator?

Hugs and love ya,

P.S. My homeschooled child, Mr. Senior 2013 that I knew I was going to ruin for life not only reads well as a young adult, but has a passion for reading. It is a toss up between how many books he and I hoard collect.

Update: Did I mention he has graduated homeschool (along with 2 more kids) and has moved on into successfully being an adult? Did I also mention HOW GRATEFUL he is to us as his parents that we did not give up homeschooling. No better gift ever have I had.

Also, look at:

  • Deschooling: Step One for the New Homeschooler (the Definitions, the Dangers, and the Delight)
  • Is Homeschooling Making the Grade? It’s in and the Grade is ALL Fs!
  • Homeschool Critics: How Do You Know You’re on Track?
  • 5 Top Mistakes of New or Struggling Homeschoolers
  • 8 Colossal Pitfalls of Homeschooling in the WHAT IF World
  • Socialization – A Homeschool Hallucination?
  • 7 Homeschool Lies I Want to Tell My Younger Self
  • Homeschooling – Beginnings are Usually Scary, Endings are Usually Sad, but It’s What’s In the Middle that Counts!
  • 10 Books That Boost Your Homeschool Zen (When It May Be Sagging)

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Homeschooling – Beginnings are Usually Scary, Endings are Usually Sad, but It’s What’s In the Middle that Counts!

December 12, 2015 | Leave a Comment
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Homeschooling – Beginnings are Usually Scary, Endings are Usually Sad, but It’s What’s In the Middle that Counts!

On the street I grew up on, my family got close to a neighbor or family that had a set of twin boys.

The twin boys were younger than me and my sister and we came to view them as “little brothers”.  As the boys grew up, they both became pilots.

We went on some of their first flights in a little 4 seat Cessna as we flew to La Grange,which was another small city nearby. We thought we were cool as we went to grab a steak and fly back home that same evening. (By the way, it was the cutest small plane ever. okay. okay.)

I loved those times as a young girl and have fond memories of our exciting times as we entered young adulthood. But I was equally impressed at all the knowledge and information that went into getting that piece of machinery up in the air.

Did you know the twin pilots had a huge list of items they had on a checklist to check off every time before they even lifted up?

In Search of a Homeschool Adventure?

Without doing that every time, there could be a terrible accident. Not one detail could be overlooked.

Too, the “routine” wasn’t left up to memory.

They had a physical clipboard with their checklist on it and checked off each part as they walked around the plane checking every part of it.

It made taking off less scary.

Homeschooling is scary on take off too and the beginnings remind me of my first air plane ride.

Check out these two tips as you get ready to begin.

EMBRACE THE ADVENTURE.

Any adventure worth taking will have risks.

I hinted about this when I shared When Homeschooling is Not an Overnight Success (Is it Worth the Risk?), but I also want you to understand that risk taking without planning is not necessary when beginning to homeschool.

Though sheer passion will not overcome all tragedies, it is the fuel needed to boost your beginnings.

Just remember though that there simply is no need to have to leap before you look because so many other homeschoolers have gone before you.

The time is long gone when folks did not hear about homeschooling. Too, there are many homeschool bloggers for just about any topic you can think about.

Francis Bacon said, “Knowledge is power” and that couldn’t be more true when beginning to homeschool.

Knowing that an abundance of information exists on the homeschool how-tos, I want to remind you to embrace the adventure.

Homeschool without inhibition. Don’t let fear hold you back from stepping out and trying another homeschool approach.

Grab my 31 Day Free Homeschool Boot Camp to start your adventure.

CHECKLISTS ABOUND GALORE –  GRAB ONE, TWO, OR . . .

Checklists are not only important, but vital or essential to homeschool success.

What type of checklists would you want?

  • Grab a routine or schedule that will work for your family. Look at my post How To Create a Homeschool Schedule That You Can Stick To.
  • Grab a scope and sequence so you have an idea of what to teach your child.
  • Grab a checklist on how to lesson plan.
  • Grab a checklist on how to homeschool high school.
  • Grab a checklist to understand what is a boxed curriculum. Check out 8 Components of a Boxed Curriculum.

Like the checklists that ensured our safety when taking off and landing, checklists serve as a guide to help you in your adventure.

Because the Middle Is What Matters.

After taking off in the Cessna airplane, it was the breath taking aerial views of the Lone Star State and time we had flying in the air that made our trip memorable.

I soon forget the jitters I had in the beginning of our airplane ride and only remember the trip and the beautiful night sky and not the checklists.

Homeschooling has been much the same way. Beginnings are not only scary, but almost paralyzing. It fades into the background as you get up and running.

Freedom to Have Fun

After you take much energy to get your homeschool up and running, it will be what you do during your journey that your children will fondly remember.

Sure, we all are going to mess up our children at one time or another and it’s almost unavoidable. We’re not perfect parents.

However, mistakes just mean that you get a do-over and you’ll do your due diligence next time to get it right.

And try to remember, that endings are normally sad because life changes and kids do grow up! Make the middle count.

Are you ready to take off? When are you going to start homeschooling?

Hugs and love ya,

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10 Books That Boost Your Homeschool Zen (When It May Be Sagging)

November 10, 2015 | 2 Comments
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10 Books that Boost Your Homeschool Zen (When It May Be Sagging) @ Tina's Dynamic Homeschool PlusWhen you lose your homeschool swagger or just need a boost, grab some of these great homeschool reads.

Especially at this time of the year when self-doubt may set in and the new look has worn off the curriculum, it is time to re-energize your enthusiasm for homeschooling.

A few of the books are just to remind you of what you left behind like compulsory schooling.

10 Books That Boost Your Homeschool

When you keep fresh in your mind what you left behind, you are not so tempted to go back and give up easily.

A few other books are gentle reminders to trust your child’s natural desire to learn and to also simplify your day.

Less can be more when homeschooling.

Real Homeschool: Letting Go of the Pinterest-Perfect and Instagram-Ideal Homeschool
Teaching from Rest: A Homeschooler’s Guide to Unshakable Peace
Simply Homeschool: 2nd Edition: Have Less Fluff and Bear More Fruit
Simplify Your Homeschool Day: Shorten Your Day, Sweeten Your Time
Project-Based Homeschooling: Mentoring Self-Directed Learners

Free Range Learning: How Homeschooling Changes Everything
The Unschooling Handbook : How to Use the Whole World As Your Child’s Classroom
Teach Your Own: The John Holt Book Of Homeschooling
The Art of Strewing: Instilling the Love of Learning by Piquing your Child’s Natural Curiosity
Dumbing Us Down: The Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Schooling, 10th Anniversary Edition

One common theme that most of the books have which I am passionate about too is to avoid falling into the comparison trap.

Homeschooling is not about comparing our homeschool methods, children or husband with another family. But it is about supporting each other free from criticism regardless of the homeschool method another homeschooler chooses to follow.

Remember to always make time to revive your passion for homeschooling by grabbing some of my favorite reads!

What books do you read to renew your determination?

Hugs and love ya,

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Also boost your teacher techniques by reading these articles:

The Creative Process: 5 Ways to Cultivate Inspiration

Mustering the Courage to Face the 4 Homeschool Biggies

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Homeschool Co-ops, Support Groups and Regional Groups. How Does It All Fit?

August 12, 2015 | 1 Comment
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There is nothing more confusing when you are new to the homeschooling world than to hear veteran homeschoolers use strange and never before heard terms like homeschool co-ops, support groups and regional groups.

The focus can be so much on curriculum gathering that help for you can get lost.

Knowing which groups are which will help you to decide if one is right for you.

A Look Inside

If a focus of a support group could be narrowed down to a few words it would be socialization (yes we do believe in it as homeschoolers) for the kids and support for mom.

Groups serve a very defined purpose even if they don’t intentionally advertise their purpose.

If homeschool co-ops are more academic than fun, the emphasis is still on camaraderie.

That too is a concern for a lot of new and experienced homeschoolers alike. Will my child know how to socialize in a group? Will he receive cultural experiences that I believe will enhance his love of learning?

These are valid concerns and can be successfully met if you are actively involved in support groups.

Take a look at these definitions so you can understand how each one is used in the homeschooling world.

Regional Group – This is perhaps the biggest and largest of support groups. Just like it says, it is regional.

It could be county wide, most of the state or just a portion of the state or even country.

In some larger states, regional groups may host annual homeschool conventions. In some states where local groups are limited, a regional group may host Bible Bees, Spelling Bees as well as Graduation Ceremonies. There is normally a fee to be a member.

The emphasis for most regional groups is to focus on support for the whole family. Though they most host activities, unlike a local support group, their emphasis normally is on preserving homeschooling rights and giving you support through your whole journey.

Tip: Ask the Regional Group what is their mission. There usually is a Board of Directors and some method to their communication whether it’s email, private e-loop, online newsletter and yes even some groups still prefer snail mail of newsletters. Find out and get that communication.

If a group can define their mission and the way it seeks to accomplish that mission, then prospective new members can see if it is a fit for their family.

Homeschool Co-ops, Support Groups and Regional Groups How Does It All Fit @Tina's Dynamic Homeschool Plus

Support Group – This term is perhaps the most general.

A support group can be anything from a private e-loop on yahoo or google plus groups that plans field trips to a meeting at the park each week by a few families.

It can have fees or no fees. Some groups may want you to sign a statement of faith or may indicate that religion is not a factor in their membership.

Some support groups act more like a group that hosts field trips and part like a larger regional group. Again, support group is a very general term, but it too has a defined purpose.

So find out what it is.

Look at some of these general questions to ask any support group:

  • What is the age group preferred?

Some groups plan activities for young and old alike and the whole family is involved.

Some groups are formed specifically for tweens, others for highschoolers or preschoolers.

  • What is the group preference?

For example, is it for gifted children, a specific religion or just Christians or secular?

  • What are the activities hosted?

Some host field trips. Are the field trips set at regular schedules or just when the members plan them?

Examples: Are there activities to focus on a special skill like Lego building or character development or are the activities varied?

  • Do they have a board of directors?

This question you basically are asking here is how organized are you without being so blunt.

Let me explain here too before I go on.

Leaders or Board of Directors are not door mats and don’t get paid normally for their service.

They render these services to the homeschooling community for a love of people.

Most Leaders I know spend countless hours planning and hosting activities (all to the exclusion of spending time with their family on weekends or weeknights).

Some Board of Directors may have been lulled into inactivity. So be sure you see a schedule of events coming up or speak to them to see what is planned.

For example some Board of Directors may be slanted by only meeting the needs of one particular group of their members.

For example, are they meeting the needs of the new homeschoolers and not just the veterans?

Are they meeting the needs of the mom with preschoolers and not just highschoolers or vice versa? It is no easy task .

A group may not possibly be meeting all of these criteria as it takes man power or like most groups woman power to do that. That is fine. As long as they meet your needs, it may be a good fit for you.

One group may not be a fit now in your journey while it may in another couple of years.

Homeschool Co-ops, Support Groups and Regional Groups

Co-op.  A co-op is a class on ANY subject.

It is a group of families that get together for a purpose. Co-ops are as varied as support groups.

They can be informal and just for fun or serious and supervised more like private schools.

They can be on any topic and can form and dissolve each year based on the needs of the area and those that are willing to lead them.

They can be held once a week, once a month, or every day.

Look at some of these specific questions to ask a homeschool co-op group:

  • What is your focus?

The emphasis is on fun and socialization on the co-op I was lead.

We have so many members we feel they each prefer their own method of schooling or academics. So when we meet, we spend more time doing games, listening to speakers about certain topics, learning to square dance or even learning to draw.

Some groups are more academic focus and this can be a huge advantage to a mom that is overwhelmed or feeling unprepared on a subject.

For example, the co-op can meet for preparing for the SAT. It can meet to help homeschoolers with math. Too, for science you may dissect an animal.

  • What is the cost?
  • How long do they meet?
  • Do you want parents involved?

The co-op we lead is not a drop off service. We require parents to be involved. Some co-ops are more like private schools and parents are not required to be present.

You can navigate these groups better by defining what you want too from each group.

Remember there is not a limit on how many groups you can join.

Which groups will you belong to this year?

Hugs and love ya,

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Check out some more tips!
5 Days of a Homeschooling Co-op Convert

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Dear New Homeschooler – Are You Making this BIG Mistake? (I Was)

July 30, 2015 | 11 Comments
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When I first started homeschooling, it took me a long time to learn a tiny two letter word – NO.

To this day, I still ask myself if I know how to say No.

Do You Struggle to Find Time to Homeschool?

Dear New Homeschooler - Are You Making this BIG Mistake @ Tina's Dynamic Homeschool Plus

What do I try to say no to each year?

  • No to over extending myself in activities outside the home.
  • No to unrealistic expectations of myself, my husband and my children as I start off the new year.
  • No to leading more co-ops, groups or field trips than I can do.
  • No to being “the mom” that always needs to be included in hosting every baby shower and wedding shower. (This is a hard one for me because I love to plan.)
  • No to filling our schedule up with so many extracurricular activities.

Homeschooling moms by nature tend to be overachievers. What is our strength can be a potential negative if we don’t keep it in check.

Trying to right all the wrongs of public school, I did plan every minute of our day when I started homeschool.

I didn’t know how to say no to friends popping in at my house unplanned or who interrupted my homeschooling day. Quality time with my kids suffered and I had learned a valuable lesson quickly.

Finding balance was not easy because then I went to extreme lengths by isolating myself from my non-homeschooling friends.

It took another year or so before I learned to graciously just say the tiny two letter  NO and find my center.

The ability to not limit what you physically, emotionally and mentally can do in the homeschooling lifestyle could be a potential pitfall in your journey.

As new homeschoolers, who want to prove how successful they are, we aim too high or over reach by setting unrealistic expectations of what can be done in any given year.

The time will come when you will have smooth sailing and can give back to others. However, that time is not when you are new or struggling.

If we want to avoid pitfalls or traps of homeschooling busyness, we need to remember something very basic – say No.

What have you said no to this year?

Be sure to read my FREE 31 Day Boot Camp for New Homeschoolers

Grab some more courage to say NO!

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