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How to Make Yourself a Morning Person When Homeschooling (Do You Really Need to Wait until the Afternoon to Homeschool?)

December 5, 2015 | 4 Comments
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How to Make Yourself a Morning Person When Homeschooling (Do You Really Need to Wait until the Afternoon to Homeschool) Tina's Dynamic Homeschool Plus

Homeschool families have varying circumstances and waiting to the afternoon to homeschool works for some families.

However, instead of adding one more thing to your added responsibilities by telling you that mornings are best, I want to show you how to seize your day by being sure you are getting the best start.

How to Avoid the Stress of Running and Rushing

So today, I want to share how to make yourself a morning person when homeschooling.

I hope too that just because I do my best work at 5:00 a.m. that you won’t hold that against me because my perfect homeschool morning routine bombed when Mr. Awesome 2015, my night owl was added to my day.

So if you’re like me and absolutely love the mornings, but have children who do not share your same “radiance” in the morning, then maybe a tip or two will help them too.

Forget the Complete Breakfast.


Though I am ready to rumble and that means a pretty hardy breakfast right when I get up, my run from the morning son is almost sick to his stomach when he wakes up.

Did I mention that is not the time for explanations about low blood sugar or needing to be refueled?

I learned that while he was hungry, a big breakfast early only seemed to slow him down.

Instead, a light meal like a yogurt, banana and blueberry smoothie (his favorite) was just enough to help him get past the morning sickness.

Because he didn’t want me asking him questions in the morning, I suggested that he dump the ingredients in the blender the night before.

All he had to do was push a button in the morning and he had it ready. No conversation with me was needed.

10:00 or 10:30 a.m. is STILL Morning Time.


Another thing I had to accept was that it was okay for him to start later after I did with the other boys.

Some days we are ready to start by 8:00 a.m., but Mr. Awesome 2015 did not do his best work at that time.

Instead of fighting his natural design to a slower start to the day (wouldn’t want it done to me), I realized that starting even at 10:00 to 10:30 a.m. is still a great start to the day.



So if you have several children that require more time in the morning and your household runs better by a later start, 10:30 a.m. is still a morning routine.

If your child is real young and needs you to start his day, but you know that he is absolutely not a morning person, then plan for a read aloud.

As he grows older, he will appreciate the fact that you allowed learning at his peak time.

Subject Matters.


Another thing I learned about helping homeschoolers who fought to focus in the mornings was to start with lighter homeschooling subjects.

Normally, I suggest tackling the hardest subjects first in the morning when you’re fresh and motivated.

That same advice does not work for night owls.

Even meaningful conversations with your children while you sip your brew, which morning people normally do after school or in the evenings can fill your morning and it still counts as homeschooling.

Too, instead of assigning harder subjects first, which most morning people tackle first, assign subjects that your children can do independently.

This gives you more time to wake up and for the morning time to pass peaceably while your children start their day slowly.

If your child is not a morning person, support them by helping them to organize their subjects by getting a slower start too.

Save the hard subjects to tackle when they come alive like later in the afternoon.

Do You Homeschool When the Sun Rises Sets?

If you do have children that are morning people and can work independently of you, let them start their day. Morning people need their time to start when it’s best for them too.

However, just make a simple rule for you, which is that all questions will have to wait until after lunch or later in the morning.

Find the Sweet Spot – Compromise.


Just be sure to answer the questions of your child that is a early riser right away, like early afternoon. Don’t wait to the evening to help a child who thrives with the morning time because that is akin to you feeling absolutely sick in the morning and not wanting a person to say a peep to you.

Early afternoon to mid-afternoon is the perfect compromise time for both morning and night owl folks to meet half-way.

Homeschoolers homeschool for all sorts of reasons from health related problems, gifted learners, secular homeschoolers to faith based homeschooling. And sometimes that means starting later in the day.

It’s hard to set up hard and fast rules for all circumstances, but you do want to set up a measuring standard for what your family is accomplishing for the day.

How Do You Measure Success?

For example, I encourage you to homeschool as early as you can and make it first in your day, whatever that time is for your family.

Interruptions can happen the longer the day goes on and by starting as soon as you can, distractions can be minimized and time learning maximized.

Many homeschoolers struggle with getting in the basics for the day because they didn’t gauge how much time they actually need in the morning.

Finding the time for your family and sticking to it is key to having a fuller day.

What time do you start your homeschool day?

Hugs and love ya,

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3 Things To Try When Your Hands-Off Homeschooling Approach is a Failure

December 1, 2015 | 2 Comments
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3 Things To Try When Your Hands Off Homeschooling Approach is a Failure @ Tina's Dynamic Homeschool Plus

My homeschool confessions have come later in my journey. I would love to tell you it’s because I am a slow learner, but the truth of it is I am a stubborn teacher.

Though I could fill up a book about things I have tried and that have flopped, I am hoping that by sharing things to try when your hands off homeschooling approach is a flop, I know that you will be a much quicker learner than me.

I have heard many reasons excuses throughout the years about why hands on learning does not work like it takes too much time, my child would prefer to just read or I don’t like the mess.

My Hits and Misses for Hands-On Homeschooling

Guess what? They may be all true, but because there is no denying the sticking power of hands on learning, I hope these ideas to ease into hands on learning will you have rethinking your present hands off approach.

Don’t Jump Ship Completely.

When I moved over to a more hands-on approach, I folded in a few activities a week, not each day.

As frustrated with my hands-off approach, which was not working, I knew that I needed time to make the transition. By not abandoning my present homeschool approach, I could slowly learn to add in hands-on activities.

I didn’t want to get overwhelmed with adding something new to my approach and besides I had to have time to mull over the fact that though a mess might be created in my home, it had a purpose.

Not only did my boys become engaged with learning that day, but they were ready to return the next day.

Meet with Just ONE Other Family.

Another thing I did when I wanted to transition to a hands-on approach was to meet with another homeschooling family each week.

If you’re a party animal homeschooler this may defeat your purpose because the more kids you have, the more you have to plan.

By meeting with just one other family, you can divide homeschool planning time between two homeschool moms.



This idea turned out much better than I even could have imagined. Not only did I have time to play by having activities every other week, but I could watch another mom that already used hands-on activities with her kids.

It was such valuable learning time for as a homeschool teacher.

A huge added bonus was that my boys had hands-on activities each week as the other homeschool mom and myself took turns planning.

Start off Easy.

Another hurdle that kept me from trying a hands-on activity was thinking that activities had to be long, drawn out and with lots of materials.

I had my light bulb moment when I saw my boys playing with puzzles.

From that moment, I learned that I set up my own boundaries to hands on learning because I thought activities had to be complicated.

Who is living and schooling in a perfect homeschool world? Good thing we can start over when we flop.

Don’t be intimidated by using a hands-on approach. It can be easier than you think.

What ideas do you have for easing into a hands-on approach?

Hugs and love ya,

Look at these posts that will help jump start you into a hands on approach without overwhelming you.

Easy Hands On Homeschooling Ideas When You’re Not the Bomb Mom
Blurring the Line Between Living and Learning When Homeschooling
When My Homeschool Curriculum Has Lost That Lovin’ Feeling

 

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10 Books That Boost Your Homeschool Zen (When It May Be Sagging)

November 10, 2015 | 2 Comments
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10 Books that Boost Your Homeschool Zen (When It May Be Sagging) @ Tina's Dynamic Homeschool PlusWhen you lose your homeschool swagger or just need a boost, grab some of these great homeschool reads.

Especially at this time of the year when self-doubt may set in and the new look has worn off the curriculum, it is time to re-energize your enthusiasm for homeschooling.

A few of the books are just to remind you of what you left behind like compulsory schooling.

10 Books That Boost Your Homeschool

When you keep fresh in your mind what you left behind, you are not so tempted to go back and give up easily.

A few other books are gentle reminders to trust your child’s natural desire to learn and to also simplify your day.

Less can be more when homeschooling.

Real Homeschool: Letting Go of the Pinterest-Perfect and Instagram-Ideal Homeschool
Teaching from Rest: A Homeschooler’s Guide to Unshakable Peace
Simply Homeschool: 2nd Edition: Have Less Fluff and Bear More Fruit
Simplify Your Homeschool Day: Shorten Your Day, Sweeten Your Time
Project-Based Homeschooling: Mentoring Self-Directed Learners

Free Range Learning: How Homeschooling Changes Everything
The Unschooling Handbook : How to Use the Whole World As Your Child’s Classroom
Teach Your Own: The John Holt Book Of Homeschooling
The Art of Strewing: Instilling the Love of Learning by Piquing your Child’s Natural Curiosity
Dumbing Us Down: The Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Schooling, 10th Anniversary Edition

One common theme that most of the books have which I am passionate about too is to avoid falling into the comparison trap.

Homeschooling is not about comparing our homeschool methods, children or husband with another family. But it is about supporting each other free from criticism regardless of the homeschool method another homeschooler chooses to follow.

Remember to always make time to revive your passion for homeschooling by grabbing some of my favorite reads!

What books do you read to renew your determination?

Hugs and love ya,

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Also boost your teacher techniques by reading these articles:

The Creative Process: 5 Ways to Cultivate Inspiration

Mustering the Courage to Face the 4 Homeschool Biggies

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5 Ways to Handle Off Days When Homeschooling

October 20, 2015 | Leave a Comment
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I have had many days where I was waiting for my latest cup of Jo or tea to kick in so I felt awake and ready to homeschool.

Though I was tempted to add another shot of caffeine to my latest brew, I figure out quickly that I was just having an off year day.

5 Ways to Handle Off Days When Homeschooling @ Tina's Dynamic Homeschool Plus

Of course, if you were to ask me that day, I probably would have embellished my bad day to say that the whole year was off.

Today, in sharing 5 ways to handle off days when homeschooling, I want to share ways I faced the wimp-itis monster for the day.

Just Say No!

■ Go back to bed.

Okay, maybe you can’t do this completely because of the sweet kids. But sometimes an off day in homeschooling is a signal that you just need more rest.

When I am completely unreasonable, I have figured out that I just need some down time. At least get some rest for the day and sometimes that means just saying no to school for the day.

■ Start the day slower.

My normal time to begin school when the kids were little was about 8:00 a.m. because my household was young and everybody was up by 5:00 a.m.

Now that we have hit the middle and high school years, we start school about 9:00 a.m.

I have figured out that starting school even an hour later helps me to still have a productive day and to figure out if I am having an off day because I am tired or just over planned.

■ Toss Out Your Homeschool Approach – Temporarily

One year when I had many off days, it was because I tried to forge ahead using a homeschool approach I was adamant about using.

A few of my off days, I tried using a topic or unit study approach along with hands-on ideas sprinkled in. My day came alive with the new approach.

Check out my article, 5 Signs that You Need to Switch Your Homeschool Approach.

Temporarily trying something new for the day was the twist I needed to see that my homeschool approach wasn’t a match for my boys.

Give yourself permission to try a homeschool approach that you have been mulling over. Doing it temporary lets you know if it’s a fit for your family or not.

■ Head Outdoors

Many days, I needed to get away from the house though I loved being there every day.

Many of us homeschoolers like the comfort of our homes because we can learn in a relaxed way.

But the change of scenery gives you a new energy for the day even though you may not think you need it.

If the weather is unbearably hot, look for something to do indoors like rock climbing, ice skating or hit the library.

It doesn’t have to cost a lot when you feel off.

If the weather is glorious and dreamy, my favorite is to take a nature walk and have the kids collect their nature bounties.

Use what they collected to teach science the next day. We had snake skins, feathers, bark, tons of flowers and all kinds of leaves.

■ Meet up with other homeschoolers. Excitement is contagious.

I always say if it was left up to me, I may never leave the comfort of my home.

But my boys love being with other homeschoolers and when it’s all said and done at the end of the activity together, I felt the same way too.

I find that when I’m tired or can’t figure out what is off about the day, I call just a few homeschooling friends and spring an unplanned field trip on them. Live wild (well for me anyway because it was unplanned) when you homeschool because the years pass by fast.

From Drudgery to Dynamic Homeschool Day

Having an off day in homeschool doesn’t have to be a waste, but can be a lesson for the day.

I would have never switched my approach to homeschool unless I gave myself permission to tiptoe over into another approach and try it.

An off day created an outlet for me to try something new that eventually became a permanent part of our homeschool and an approach I treasure to this day.

Embrace off days when homeschooling, you never know what might unfurl.

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6 Things I Won’t Regret After Homeschooling 16+ Years

October 5, 2015 | 7 Comments
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6 Things I WON'T Regret After 16+ Years of Homeschooling. Don't give up because in the end it's all worth it @ Tina's Dynamic Homeschool Plus

If this post, 6 things I won’t regret after homeschooling for 16+ years helps you to make even one tiny step toward homeschool progress today, then it’s well worth it.

Each day can seem to make unplanned demands on our time.

And some days it’s difficult to say the least to decide when to let things go like the house or to not school for the day.

Homeschooling has never disappointed me though I have been disappointed in my own attempts to homeschool at one time or another.

6 Things I Won’t Regret After Homeschooling 16+ Years

Here is what I won’t regret when I faced giants though not always feeling so brave and not always having it together each day.

■ I don’t regret letting go of the thinking that homeschool was something we did on the side and that it was a burden that I added to my day.

For the first five years or so of homeschooling, I really had to fight to carve out our time for homeschool.

Some days I just didn’t feel like the homeschool routine. I had to give myself permission to feel weak at times.

It’s not that we had so much going on all the time, but looking back now what I didn’t realize was that I was building lifelong habits of study. It was hard work.

It was different doing a research project with the kids or even reading to them, but I am talking about enforcing a general start time to each and every day so we could be productive.

It took a lot of energy to form my sons’ habits, but what a payoff I was in store for as they hit middle and high school grades.

My kids were and are the ones now getting off their devices, or cleaning up their messes in the morning so they can start school at 9:00 a.m.

Did I mention, I just follow along now as the boys get our day started?

■ Call me Bible thumping or weird, but I don’t regret one minute of all the time we spent with just fellow Christian homeschoolers at field trips and in co-ops.

Our field trips and co-ops were a time to share the highs and lows about homeschooling with others that were not going to judge me.

And no, I didn’t want to vent to somebody who just thinks that they know what I am talking about when it comes to living the homeschool lifestyle.

■I don’t regret not immersing my boys into association with those who went to public school.

My oldest two boys are confident, strong and determined young men now. And capable of making decisions apart from me.

I didn’t deliberately keep them apart from public schooled kids, it just happened naturally.

Too, I don’t want my sons judging other people for choices they make. Don’t we have enough of that in the world? Public school was just not for us.

However, as you homeschool longer, you appreciate too your schedule is not in sync with the schedule of public school.

Through the many years, I have heard new homeschoolers say it’s important for their children to keep their friends from school.

It really is hard to do that and a lot of it depends on how long your kids went to public school.

As homeschool families, we are not really being off-ish. We just live a completely different life and it’s not running parallel to public school.

For my boys, it wasn’t necessary that they huddle in the evening with the neighbor kids to hang out.

We already went to field trips or co-ops during the day. Evening time was naturally spent with Dad when he got back from work.

■I don’t regret exposing my sons to my vulnerabilities as the teacher.

My boys are not robots of me and neither do they have an overly inflated view of me or my teaching.

I want you to know this because, sad to say, some homeschool parents aren’t homeschooling because it’s the best thing for their children.

Instead of keeping what is best for their children as the foundation of their homeschool, homeschooling can turn into a prove-that-I can-quest.

The mindset what-can-I-do-to-top-your-teaching-method can invade the body of a homeschool mom and she can turn into somebody that she doesn’t even know herself.

Homeschooling becomes a competition instead of a course. Ugly.

The child does get left behind (pardon the cliche) because we can set out to prove that the method we feel is the best is the best.

I learned early on that what worked for me and what worked for my sons were completely different. Look at my article, 5 Signs That You Need to Switch Your Homeschool Approach.

Jumping head first into a teaching style that was opposite of the way I thought I should teach, I showed my boys that homeschooling was about them.

Exposing the Vulnerable Side to Homeschooling

They appreciated that I too struggled and it made me a much more sympathetic teacher with them when they struggled.

■ I’ll never regret using a boxed curriculum when I needed to.

Through the years, I have read many pros and cons about boxed curriculum.

Boxed curriculum can get a bum rap because when it’s first used some homeschoolers don’t use it like they need for their family.

Teaching a child is not an exact science for each child and the boxed curriculum doesn’t really teach anything. You learn that you are homeschooling a child.

However, with the many ups and downs in homeschooling, it has been a breath of fresh air to use laid out curriculum and pick and choose which assignments we will do, which ones we will skip and which ones we will tweak.

By the way, that is how you used a boxed curriculum.

I have no regrets in using all that is available to us as homeschoolers.

■And I will never, never regret all the teachable moments we have had so far together while letting the housework and laundry go.

When I shared this poem below each year at my workshop, I could hardly finish reading it because I couldn’t get through the words without tears or a cracking voice.

It’s hard for me to share it with you today because it reminds me of how fast our journey has gone by.

Homeschool Survivor or Champion?

It has come true in my case because I no longer have babies.

So I want to encourage you to remember that you don’t have long to homeschool. And in the end it is about having no regrets.

Babies Don’t Keep

Mother, oh Mother, come shake out your cloth
empty the dustpan, poison the moth,
hang out the washing and butter the bread,
sew on a button and make up a bed.
Where is the mother whose house is so shocking?
She’s up in the nursery, blissfully rocking.

Oh, I’ve grown shiftless as Little Boy Blue
(lullaby, rockaby, lullaby loo).
Dishes are waiting and bills are past due
(pat-a-cake, darling, and peek, peekaboo).
The shopping’s not done and there’s nothing for stew
and out in the yard there’s a hullabaloo
but I’m playing Kanga and this is my Roo.
Look! Aren’t her eyes the most wonderful hue?
(lullaby, rockaby, lullaby loo).

The cleaning and scrubbing will wait till tomorrow,
for children grow up, as I’ve learned to my sorrow.
So quiet down, cobwebs. Dust go to sleep.
I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep.

What will you not regret at the end of your journey? (And yes, I do have tears when I read that poem each year.)

Grab some more go juice below!

  • Wipe Out Self-Doubt: 13 Ways to Show Homeschool Progress (And How I Know My Sons Got It)
  • How to Go From a Boring Homeschool Teacher to Creative Thinker (Boring to BAM)
  • 5 Top Mistakes of New or Struggling Homeschoolers

Hugs and you know I love ya,

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