Today is day 3: What is NOT homeschooling in the free 31 Day Free Boot Camp for New Homeschoolers.
New homeschoolers tend to have a picture in their mind of what homeschooling is and normally it looks a lot like public school.
I have found through the years that sometimes it is easier to explain what homeschooling is by telling you what it is NOT.
Begin with these three quick mindset shifts.
3 Ways to Know What is NOT Homeschooling
1. Homeschooling is NOT school at home.
If the public school system is not working now, why repeat it? You don’t have to have a chalkboard, dry erase board or even a school room.
Some families prefer a schoolroom, others don’t and still others just don’t have the space for one. A school room or lack of it does not make a true homeschooler.
A school room is fine if you want one, though set it up to suit YOU. When I started formally homeschooling my sons were 5 years old and 3 years old and newborn. A schoolroom was a place I could organize all of our school items.
I did not hail to the way of thinking that just because we did some of our academics in our schoolroom that my children would grow up thinking that learning only took place in the schoolroom.
I brought in a couch to my school room to be comfortable on while I nursed my newborn and a changing table to my school area so that I wouldn’t have to leave my oldest as he was learning to read.
At that particular time in my journey, my schoolroom was a huge life saver in helping me to control chaos when I had little help from my young children.
Training was in progress to help them to begin a day, have good study habits and help with chores around the house. My schoolroom gave me a sense of control that was needed at that time when I could control very little else going on with children that young.
The thinking that learning just took place in schoolroom was balanced with the fact that the other part of our day was spent lounging around the house reading, playing games, and doing science and history. My children showed me that they will learn because of the loving environment their father and I created instead of doing school in one area or another.
Other families prefer to have their items all over the house. Each family is different and needs to determine how and where to school. From personal experience, if you have ANY area you can possible use, try to start with organization now by keeping a good amount of your school items in one area.
2. Dumbed down academics is not homeschooling either but you do want proof of homeschool success.
Do not try to win debates by explaining your choice to those that criticize it. Present some facts to the naysayers and grab some for yourself too.
Grab some facts from the National Home Education Research Institute. What is NHERI?
From their site: NHERI conducts and collects research about homeschooling (home-based education, home schooling), and publishes the research journal called the Home School Researcher
. The institute has hundreds of research works documented and catalogued on home schooling, many of which were done by NHERI. Simply put, NHERI specializes in homeschool research.
{loving, learning, fostering sibling togetherness – what more could I ask for?}
3. Homeschooling does not mean we have follow grade levels.
There is not a bigger mistake than taking your kids out of the grade level they were in and putting them in the next grade level in homeschool.
As homeschoolers we don’t follow grade levels. We find the true level of each child and make the curriculum match the child.
In addition, we match each subject to our kids’ strength and weaknesses.
New Homeschooler
So, what is homeschooling and the homeschooling lifestyle?
Day to day meaningful conversations become a normal part of teaching your children. I
t is about getting to know your son or daughter that you thought you knew so well before.
Allowing your children to hear your expressions each day of your love for learning. Homeschooling becomes more about parenting while learning takes place.
Also, letting go of burdensome homework and allowing more time for free play and a simple childhood become the norm.
Eventually the line between living and learning becomes blurred.
This is a good thing and you are no longer living for your curricula, but making curricula serve your lifestyle. It is about playing together, working together, worshipping together and learning together.
Define your mission and your goals because they are your foot holds to guide you through your journey.
Go here to Step 5a. Choose Unique forms JUST for You!
Not a kazillion other people download my forms for a Homeschool Mission Statement and jot down your goals.
Appreciating that homeschooling is not a mere academic choice but a lifestyle change will help you to seize ALL that homeschooling offers.
New to Homeschool
Also, look at a few other things about me.
- I am the author of the book Homeschooling 31 Day Boot Camp for New Homeschoolers: When You Don’t Know Where to Begin
And I have a detailed self-paced online homeschool Kickstarter course. It is a detailed comprehensive course for first time homeschoolers.
That is enough about me.
This new homeschoolers free boot camp is about you. I’ve not only been helping new homeschoolers in person, but here at my site for years.
Other New Homeschooler Resources:
- Day 1 Learn The Lingo and New Homeschooler Free Bootcamp (& free glossary)
- Day 2: Homeschool Roots Matter and New Homeschooler Free Bootcamp
How do you do the curriculum but also play and have fun? How do you not stress about what needs to get done and not get behind? I am lacking in his area. I want my kids to enjoy school AND grow in my relationship with them. Appreciate your help
Hi Shelli,
I so enjoyed your question and I have an answer for you here at my New Bee blog. Such a great question!!
http://www.newbeehomeschooler.com/apps/blog/show/42473378-new-homeschooler-how-to-do-the-curriculum-and-still-have-fun-
Thank you so much I loved this post!
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Hey Krista,
You are so welcome. Sometimes for me I have to know what “NOT” to do too. It just keeps it all real. Great to have you here!
I have been trying to follow the boot camp, but I only seem to get an e-mail once a week or so. Doesn’t matter. I have learned a lot, but this article by far is the best….. so far. Since I am a newbie I am stressed between trying to keep it school like for structure and yet non school like for comfort and love. To give him what he doesn’t get at school. This has made me feel so much better in my decision. Thanks for sharing your experience!
Hi Shay,
So that I don’t overwhelm you and so that we “plod” along I may send 1 or more days at *one* time instead of sending a post each day. I sent one out Monday that had 2 days on it and one this morning that had up to Day 6. Remember too anytime you get behind, you can come here and click on the “category” 31 Day Boot Camp and see ALL of them too.
http://tinasdynamichomeschoolplus.com/category/31-day-blog-bootcamp-for-new-homeschoolers/
Just remember that unless you plan to school under a rock you WILL be able to give him what he needs. When you stop thinking of it as “he is missing something good” and start thinking like “you have superior” then you don’t spend needless worry on what the public school provides.
I had no clue of the enriched environment that was set ahead of me, BUT I stayed flexible, willing to work and kept educating myself. I thought those types of environment existed only in a big city, but they do not.
Savor and enjoy this PRECIOUS time and remember you are NOT alone..
Hugs
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