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3 Reasons to NOT Avoid the Homeschool Middle Ground

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Fighting mini battles while we homeschool becomes part of our homeschool lifestyle. And it’s true that for many issues involving education, homeschoolers don’t wade in lukewarm waters nor take the middle of the ground approach. Being firmly decisive is key to surviving the harsh amount of negativity that is thrown our way.

Standing Firm on Homeschool Middle Ground

However, many things in homeschooling are more successful when you can step back and straddle the middle road. Sometimes taking an all or nothing approach can be counter productive, even extreme at times.

Look at these 3 reasons to NOT avoid the homeschool middle ground.

ONE/  When you do a unit study with multiple ages of children.

You can set your homeschool day up for failure when you use a learning resource that is too high above your oldest child’s head or one that is too young below it.

It’s a common mistake; choosing a unit study resource that is the grade level of your oldest child.

The secret to individualizing a delightful unit study topic is to  choose the middle grade between the ages of your children.

Seasoned homeschool veterans know that it’s easier to scale down activities for younger grades. Use the example of a plant unit study.

Younger students can color, label and dissect a plant. Older students or high school students can use the same unit study, but expand the activities on it to a high school level.

For example, older students can include plant history, learn about the local plants in your area and even spend some time in an apprenticeship learning from local professionals about herbs or plants. Ideas to use for an older student spring from the middle of the grade resource that you are currently using.

Not all ideas are so easy to round up for an older learner, but they are more useful than a resource used for your youngest learner.

TWO/ When you mix and match homeschool curriculum.

It’s easy to use the same curriculum provider with all of your children. Why would you do that though?

Each child is as unique as each homeschool family or should be.

Take the middle ground, avoid the extreme by choosing just one homeschool curriculum and use pieces and parts of a boxed curriculum, unit study and another curriculum to create a study that is unique for each child.

If you’re using just one type of curriculum, then one or more of your children may not be benefiting from it as much as another child. Mixing and matching homeschool curriculum will ensure a better fit for all of your children.

THREE/ When you begin homeschooling high school.

I did it too when I started homeschooling high school and that is to right away in 9th grade take a sock it to him attitude when planning.

High school is not about controlling your teen through his high school years, but it’s about working alongside each other. It is a give and take.

You give because your teen is a different person than you and your husband and he has goals and inspirations now that he too wants to meet. But it’s a take also because you don’t want to give up all your goals or plans for your teen’s future and some things will be must-haves in high school.

What I’m saying is that you choose the middle ground in high school when you help a teen keep balanced in all subjects until he decides his goals.

Some adults don’t even know what they won’t do, so don’t put a lot of pressure on a teen. Take the middle road by keeping subjects balanced until a mommy track, college track or job track is decided.

Also, grab some other tips from my other articles Homeschool Confession – My Homeschool Mistakes, Go Ahead and Make a Mistake: Homeschool Without Fear and Homeschooling – Beginnings are Usually Scary, Endings are Usually Sad, but It’s What’s In the Middle that Counts!.

Don’t give up the fight in touting the decisive ways we need to take a stand when it comes to homeschooling, but just know that the middle ground can not only be productive, but necessary many times in your journey.

What else do you take the middle ground on while homeschooling?

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45 Ways to Define Homeschool Curriculum – Is Your Definition Holding You Back?

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Today, I am sharing 45 ways to define homeschool curriculum. Also, look at my page The Best Homeschool Curriculum by Grade Level for more tips.

The word curriculum has Latin roots and it means to “run a course.”

Instead of taking time to expand your definition of homeschool curriculum, it’s easy to run out and buy the first textbook that smells good (okay, I did that). Can you relate?

45 Ways to Define Homeschool Curriculum - Is Your Definition Holding You Back?

Not only am I hoping that it will help you to expand your definition of how to use your experiences in everyday life to teach your children, but I hope you will see how many of these things that you can easily and without much money put your hands-on.

Don’t get me wrong.

You have to have curriculum and it’s paid for somehow.

Whether you spend hours poring over free curriculum or you pay with your hard earned money, homeschool curriculum has a cost!

Looking beyond the cost of homeschool curriculum, I put this list together because I want you to focus more on the content or quality of your instruction.

Many one-room schoolhouses of the past had very little in the way of formal curriculum. Also, they had shorter school days.

What they did have was a strong work ethic and took time to build not only character, but teach kids life skills that would take them into adulthood.

Too, more than ever, we are booming with an abundance of techie devices and online learning, but have they really raised literacy levels?

Don’t let the overwhelming amount of curriculum that we have today, which tout high rigorous standards replace everyday experiences in our life.

Teaching our children how to think can’t be replaced by online learning.

So look at these 45 ways to define homeschool curriculum.

  1. View videos.
  2. Study art prints.
  3. Watch a documentary.
  4. Listen to CDs. Yes, they are still around and sometimes have the best lessons about a subject.
  5. Watch movies.

True ‘Classic’ Homeschool Curriculum

  1. Your life examples.
  2. Your life experiences.
  3. The life examples of others.
  4. The life experiences of others.
  5. Analyze primary resources.
  1. Play board games to learn about math, science, history and language arts.
  2. View online and print magazines.
  3. Use educational apps.
  4. Oral interviews with professionals, experts in specialty fields and persons with first-hand knowledge of current or old events. Think of an interview with a grandmother or grandfather or neighbor.
  5. Animal care.

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  1. Gardening.
  2. Manipulatives.
  3. Learn about olld toys.
  4. Read any book like history, biographies or cook books.
  5. Your specific written plans about any topic.
  1. Watch and learn from reenactments.
  2. Memorization.
  3. Podcasts.
  4. Visit museums and attend museum classes.
  5. Listen and study music from the past and present.
  1. Learn and study musical instruments.
  2. Analyze old photos and new photos.
  3. Study a timeline.
  4. Review old and new advertisements.
  5. Attend plays.

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  1. Attend a musical or ballet.
  2. Read old newspapers. (or review Old Wills and Deeds at the Courthouse. So cool.)
  3. Take nature walks and a trip to the beach.
  4. Nature collections.
  5. Learning about sculptures or statues.
  1. Old cemeteries not only showcase a period in history, but provide details about people from a certain time.
  2. Specialty workshops or group classes like cooking classes, CPR classes and babysitting classes.
  3. Read old documents in a courthouse. Did you know that most of the documents are free to the public? Read an old Will or an old Deed to learn about what people owned and how they lived their lives.
  4. Visit significant battle sites.
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  1. Visit first homes of Presidents.
  2. View historic buildings or homes in the old downtown part of your city.
  3. Visit an antique shop to learn about things used in agriculture and everyday life from times past.
  4. Visit an aquarium.
  5. Free online old school books.

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Mixing It Up: How to Combine Homeschool Approaches (Without Losing Your Mind)

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Mixing It Up How to Combine Homeschool Approaches (Without Losing Your Mind) @ Tina's Dynamic Homeschool Plus

Get off the curriculum hunt and get back to understanding just your child. It sounded sane enough and it was because it was my mother’s advice. Today, in mixing it up: how to combine homeschool approaches (without losing your mind) is not about loving or leaving a homeschool approach, but how to combine your favorite ideas from each one.

When You’re Not a Curriculum Expert

It can be painful to make a decision that you thought was the best for your family. It was for me. Not only was it painful to leave my loved classical approach, but it can have you questioning your ability to teach your kids.

Finding balance is not easy and like others, I made some knee jerk decisions about curriculum with my classical approach and then found myself coming back to some of the things I loved about it. Look at my post, How to Use a Boxed Curriculum Without Giving Up Your Homeschool Approach.

Look at these things that I learned and that I hope will help you to avoid the same insane trip I made.

Analyzing a few of these things before I dropped my homeschool approach would have saved me  needless stress.

Forget What Type of Homeschooler You *Think* You Are.

I know, we all like to say that we are classical, unit study homeschooler or unschooler or whatever type, but I learned that choosing an approach right away is not what is most important.

What is important is analyzing which parts of a homeschool approach will work for your family.

By labeling yourself right away or identifying right away with a group, you think you may have to follow all of the parts of a particular approach.

That is what I did. Because I wanted strong readers, I felt the only way to do that was with a classical approach.

That brings me to the second point, which is to identify the teaching idea or suggestion that makes you excited about teaching.

Examine EACH part of a Homeschool Approach.

Research in great detail about what you do like about the approach you are drawn to.

Again, I did this wrong. I read in generalities about the different homeschool approaches and then I chose a homeschool approach instead analyzing the pieces first.

It reminds me of a point that Susan Wise Bauer said when teaching reading and that is to teach pieces to whole.

Teaching is much the same when you are trying to determine a starting point. What am I talking about?

Look at these fine points that I wanted to teach though I didn’t know how to bundle them up, so to speak, as a homeschool approach.

  • Having a love for learning lifelong was important.
  • Being able to teach not only rigorous academics, but a Biblical view was important.
  • Having lifelong readers was important.
  • Hands-on learning is important, especially for wiggly boys.
  • Learning as much together as we could.

Comparing what is the mainstay points of each homeschool approach with your goals allows you to see the strong points and the not so good points about each approach.

It Only Matters How Your Kids Learn.

Another vital point to mixing homeschool approaches is to read about, become an expert in and learn the best points of each homeschool approach that works for your kids. This was a fantastic point made by my mother.

Again, this is a huge area I made a mistake in. Not only did I overwhelm myself in trying to understand all the approaches, my focus first should of been on how my kids learn.

That is the reason I had to let go of doing classical homeschooling because it is not hands-on focused.

Mix It All Up and Determine Which Approach Has More of Your Checklist.

Then next because you need a starting point for curriculum, one homeschool approach needs to be your dominant approach.

It helps to narrow your focus not only for curriculum, but about following homeschool blogs and reading books that give you tips on how best to teach the homeschool approach you chose.

For example, look at this list below that helped me to see that a unit study approach was a much better choice for my family.

  • Though reading and history are two favorite luvs of my mine, my goal is to have my sons to introduced to a well rounded list of literature. I know the classical approach is primarily history focus. So I crossed out that part about the classical approach. The unit study approach allowed us to read what we are learning about or our topic and it is a much more better fit for my kids.
  • When it comes to history, the classical approach about covering history in order makes complete sense to me and my kids. So we followed the classical approach when studying history.
  • I love the hands-on approach to unschooling because thought it’s not my learning style, most children thrive, including mine, with a large dose of hands-on activities. However, I prefer a much more predictable start and end to my day and do not leave it completely up to my kids (child lead learning) to find out what they want to learn about. We need more organization, but I take the hands-on aspect of this approach.
  • The relaxed approach of unschooling also appeals to us because it is opposite of my personality. I other words, I don’t leave it up to me to make the complete decision because my teaching style in the beginning tended to be strict and austere. (ugly, I know, but it’s true.) I followed how my boys learned with a relaxed approach and that dictated taking that piece from this approach.
  • Another concept that appealed to us that I did not find in the classical approach or the unschooling approach was learning until mastery. Unit study is a mastery learning approach. My children could learn until their appetite was satisfied and some subjects have very little review or repeat the next year because of how in depth your child go when learning a topic.

When I learned, albeit the hard way, that mixing a homeschool approach should start first with understanding the way my kids learn best and not what just appealed to me and letting go of my ideal homeschooling (i.e. fantasy), it allowed me to follow my homeschool dreams.

Knowing where to begin is key.

Are you struggling with your homeschool approach?

102 Top Picks for Homeschool Curriculum is one of my favorite resources in helping you to determine learning styles and understanding homeschool approaches.

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10 Signs to Know When to Walk Away from “Perfect” Curriculum

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Today, I’m sharing 10 signs to know when to walk away from the perfect curriculum. Also, look at my page The Best Homeschool Curriculum by Grade Level for more tips.

The perfect homeschool curriculum is music to our ears or at least we think so.

Well, it was “perfect” homeschool curriculum at the time.

However, times change.

And having two homeschooled graduates, you think I would learn from my quest for the perfect homeschool curriculum.

Admittedly, I can be hard-headed, but I learned a few things as I knocked my head on the wall. (ouch, don’t do that)

10 Signs to Know When to Pitch the “Perfect” Curriculum

Sharing 10 tips to know when to walk away from the “perfect” homeschool curriculum hopefully you’ll not do some of these same things.

1. When your child out grows the curriculum.

You may think well duh, my children are getting older and they will outgrow it. No, I am not talking about that.

What I mean is that whatever made you decide to use the curriculum at that time and then suddenly the circumstance is not there, curriculum can turn from sweet to sour.

I have one son that went from wanting the full picture each day in his curriculum to a checklist.

The curriculum outgrew its usefulness and now becomes a burden. Time to move on.

2. When your child’s learning style changed.

Most kids are wiggly willies (meaning girls too) until about the age of 6 or 7 years old.

Along about 8 to 10 years of age, a child’s true learning style emerges. Normally, this learning style will be the one that will be with them longer or maybe even their whole life.

This happens at anytime and kids don’t wait to the first day of school to present their new learning style. But, you can start seeing frustration now in a curriculum that seemed to have worked before.

This happened to me with another one of my son and it was in the middle of a school year.

The textbook method to math no longer worked because his auditory learning style started to be dominant.

So in the middle of the year, I was on the prowl for a math curriculum that suited his auditory learning style.

 3. When you have to change your homeschool approach.

Saying that you’ll use the same homeschool approach your whole journey is a rookie mistake. I know, I did it.

There is nothing wrong with wanting to stick to a homeschool approach because it works for your family, but the problem is that life gets in the way.

Changing my homeschool approach because either I was pregnant, sick, or had to take care of aging parents are all things I’ve had to focus on.

Curriculum then becomes a burden when I don’t have time to plan it. Switching to a boxed curriculum was a welcomed relief.

It was easier to see this coming unlike some of the other signs.

Check out my tips at my article, Taking a Hit Doesn’t Mean to Quit– Homeschooling Through Crisis.

4. When most of your days are filled with tears. (yours and your kids)

I thought this would be another one of those duh things that you think that most homeschool educators know, but I have tell you about helping a homeschooler one year.

I won’t forget her because no matter what her boys said about not understanding the method and curriculum she chose, it was going to be her way. They were going to use it.

She had great kids and their tears flowed because the curriculum just didn’t click with the kids.

However, because the curriculum fit her learning style, she wasn’t giving it up at any cost.

It was a pretty ugly standoff and ambitious homeschooling has a way of biting back.

Look at my article, Homeschooling for the Love of Learning – Does It Really Work?

5. When your curriculum makes you feel like you’re behind.

Pitch it. That is all there is to it.

When a curriculum takes over your life, your day, and your kids because it no longer is a tool but a taskmaster it’s time to walk away from it.

It really is very simple and uncomplicated though you may read a lot of curriculum tips that try to make you feel like its you or your kid’s fault. It is not.

Unless your child has learning disabilities, he is just where he should be.

Let me say that again. He is where he is suppose to be and not where the boxed curriculum touts that he should be.

Also, check out the tips in 102 Top Picks for Homeschool Curriculum.

6. When you didn’t ask specific questions before you bought it.

It’s okay for one of your homeschooling friends to be over the moon excited about a curriculum. However, that doesn’t mean it will work for you because she has tremendous success.

Your kids are different and unique and so are you.

I have purchased curriculum based on suggestions before asking specific questions.

Questions like how long does it take you to get through the curriculum, how much teacher prep does it require, do you have to buy anything supplemental and can I use it with multiple ages are some very specific questions to initiate conversation.

7. When your curriculum doesn’t reflect your family’s values or goals.

When you start to homeschool, it seems like there are lot of things you are just suppose to know right from the beginning.

And knowing exactly the goals and values for your family is one of those things you need to know, but I also learned that goals and visions change and grow.

Do You Need to Unlearn these Homeschool Curriculum Habits

Whether you want to move toward more faith-based homeschooling or want to move toward a more secular approach, don’t wait to switch curriculum.

When a curriculum is not working, it sets your homeschool back.

Move forward by letting go of the weight of a curriculum that is not working.

8. When your teaching style has changed.

As you grow in your homeschool experience, there will be some subjects that you feel more comfortable teaching than others.

Some curriculum gives more detailed back ground information about a subjects than others do or they may not give enough background information. Your teaching needs changed and may be different than the present curriculum you are using.

What was a homeschool help at one time can become a hindrance.

Your teaching style will change, so don’t delay switching curriculum to breathe life into your teaching journey.

Also, I love trying out curriculum for free on a limited bases because it gives me a chance to see if it will work for me. You’ll love being able to do that with the Homeschool Buyers Coop. Although they have a lot of free curriculum during the summer to try out, they have many freebies throughout the year.

9. When you over buy one type and now need separate curriculum.

You are not alone. I think we all over buy at one time or the other.

But, what I am honing in on is that you may want to buy curriculum from different approaches.

For example, I have one son that likes textbooks and another son that wilts when one is pulled out.

Instead of buying or using the same curriculum across the board for all my children, I bought separate products that use a variety of homeschool approaches for each of my boys.

10. When you seem to be leaving more out than you’re covering.

This was the final straw for me when I left more curriculum out than I was actually using.

I knew that I had to change my curriculum. Becoming weighed down with curriculum caused stress instead of easing it.

There may be a lot of things you regret by the time you finish homeschooling, but switching to a homeschool curriculum that better suits your present needs won’t be one of them.

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What Does It Mean To Be Family Focused Instead of Curriculum Driven When Homeschooling?

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What it means to be family focused instead of curriculum driven when homeschoolling @ Tina's Dynamic Homeschool Plus

I failed too. When I struggled with homeschooling it was because I hyper focused on breezing through the curriculum instead of focusing on my family.

Family Focused Instead of Curriculum Driven

I just knew that if I finished a lesson, a book or an assignment, then my children were “properly taught.”

When I completed a curriculum, I felt we were making progress and learning.

That is a false sense of accomplishment.

Public school is curriculum focused. What makes homeschoolers different?

Let me make clear that I am not advocating unfinished lesson plans or half-hearted days of teaching.

What I am advocating is that at times during our journey it can take one or two days to get a point.

At one point in my journey,  it took one of my sons a year and half to learn one level of math.

Am I to feel that if my child completed 5 lessons in one day or one book in two years that I wasted ANY of my time?

Family focused goals don’t keep pace to the time table in a curriculum.

Switching from a Public School Mindset to Family Focused Goals. Big Difference.

You probably have heard before that curriculum is a tool. It’s true. But what does it mean exactly?

■ Well a tool can serve a very useful purpose.

A paintbrush, a pen, a drill, a saw, a hoe, a shovel, a hammer have all been used to create the most exquisite pieces of art like the Mona Lisa, beautiful poetry or the most breathtaking pieces of landscape or architecture.

■ What was more important, the tool or the skilled craftsman?

It was the attitude, patience, devotion and skill of the craftsman to shape the masterpiece, not the tool.

When we realize that curriculum doesn’t teach anything, but our attitude and time spent with children in productive learning does, then we are TRUE TEACHERS.

We are then not curriculum driven but family driven.

We are goal oriented, not lesson oriented.

Curriculum is a must-have tool and we have to have it.

For example, if three teacher’s manuals make you feel more equipped to teach and you glean from each one what you need, then GET ALL THREE. Don’t worry about what anybody else thinks.

However, don’t purchase them because you are afraid.

You have been equipped with what you need to do this assigned work.

Focus on improving yourself as a teacher, your skill, your devotion and then you will have a true masterpiece – YOUR CHILDREN!

Hugs from me to you today,

Also read:

6 Things I Won’t Regret After Homeschooling 16+ Years
Second Chance Homeschooling – We Can Have Do-Overs